8 blind date secrets to instantly win over the guy you like

Note 1: When you meet for the first time, you must let him choose the place

As a woman, having too many ideas will make a man feel that you are trying to control him, so don't have too many opinions. If he asks you on the phone where you want to meet, you can say, "It's up to you. Anywhere is fine." In this way, you not only give him the feeling of being dependent on him, but also throw the difficult problem to him. If you choose a place and pick a cheap one to show that you know how to live, he may think you have no taste; if you choose an expensive one to show that you have taste, he may think you are fussy.

Note 2: Be sure to arrive a few minutes later than him

A woman who goes on a blind date is definitely not a girl in her twenties, so if you arrive earlier than a man, it will make people think that you are very anxious and in a hurry. Don't listen to what others say about girls who arrive on time giving people an impression of being simple and naive, that's all nonsense. It's not that we are unpunctual. If he arrives 10 minutes early, we will arrive on time. If he arrives on time, we will be two minutes late. Figure out how to operate it yourself.

Note 3: Ordering food is a skill

Be sure not to order expensive dishes, especially when your date is a wealthy bachelor, he will think you are trying to trick him. But if you order really cheap dishes, he might think you are not presentable in the future, so just get your point across, let him know that you are not extravagant, but you have experienced and tasted something new. Usually my recommendation is to order a green vegetable, it's hard to go wrong. As for drinks, of course you’d order yogurt. If he loves drinking milk, it can stimulate his imagination.

Note 4: Talk less and smile more

Too much talk will lead to mistakes. Remember this. Even if he thinks you are a chatterbox in the future, that is a matter for the future. You have to hold it back for the first time. Ladies just sit there and smile obediently. If the other person is really too quiet and you like him, bring up a few topics. If he still doesn't talk much, you can tell him a joke. Say something like, "How about I tell you a joke and you have to laugh." Even if what you tell isn't a nice one, he will think you're cute.

Note 5: Avoid sensitive topics

Asking someone how many girlfriends they have had and how they broke up with their previous girlfriend the first time you meet them is so horrible and gossipy. Remember: you are a lady from a noble family, it’s not too late to answer those questions later. If he asks you in return, you can say, "Oh, I feel embarrassed when you ask me this. Can I tell you slowly later?" In this way, firstly, you are giving him a signal that you want to continue dating her. Secondly, he will think you are shy. Thirdly, he will not think you are not sincere, because you don't want to hide it from him, you just don't want to say it now.

Note 6: Look honest on the surface

Although the previous few tips are a bit petty, in the final analysis, you still have to make the other person feel that you are sincere. Simplicity and honesty are qualities that men think their wives need to possess, but you must know that honesty and cleverness are not contradictory. Don't let people think you are stupid. For example, you can tell him something that sounds sincere but innocuous: "I love to sleep in. My mother said that after I get married, I have to make breakfast for my husband and I can't sleep in anymore, haha."

Note 7: Always be shy

Although it is difficult to marry a virgin nowadays, men all hope that their wives have little emotional experience. If you keep staring at him, he will feel uneasy. You can lower your head and eyes when he looks at you. If you really can't do it, just watch Korean dramas. The heroines in them can all pretend.

Note 8: Is your phone ready?

It would be very annoying if you get endless calls after you first met him. But if you change your phone to vibrate mode and he finds out, he will feel uncomfortable. If you just put it in your bag, he will think you must have someone else to blame you. So move your mobile phone and put it on the table. It is best to make an appointment with your good friend and have him send you a text message on the way. You can also tell him that it is a good friend who is coming. It would not be real if there is a call without a text message, right?