11 signs that he hasn't accepted you from the bottom of his heart

We often find excuses for some of our boyfriend’s behaviors to comfort ourselves: he may just be too busy; she may just be an ordinary friend of his... Stop deceiving yourself and look at the following behaviors, which show that he does not love you or does not accept you from the bottom of his heart, and light up the red light for the relationship in time.

1. He keeps playing with his phone during the date

The dating time is very short compared to the time apart. If he is always playing with his phone during a short date, then it is very likely that he does not care about you that much, or there are people or things in his phone that attract him more.

2. You have been dating for more than half a year, but he still doesn’t introduce you to his family or friends

After dating for a few months, a man will naturally want to introduce you into his own circle of life, including his parents, and buddies. If he still doesn't let you meet any of his close family members or friends after dating for more than half a year, then he probably does not approve of your relationship.

3. He always meets up with his ex

Of course, it may not be realistic to end a relationship immediately, but if he is always in contact with his ex, even if they are just ordinary friends, bars, social networks, phone calls... then you need to formally talk about your current relationship status.

4. Reacting too enthusiastically or indifferently

In the early stages of a relationship, many men will design some "games", such as not calling you for a long time, just to give you a surprise on a special day; or pretending not to care and waiting for you to invite them out... But if you have really established a romantic relationship, these "games" should stop, and you should maintain normal communication through phone calls, text messages, and emails without showing overly cold or overly enthusiastic responses.

5. He is still very rational and calm

A woman in love has an IQ of 0, which is a sign of a woman in love, but in fact, when men fall in love, they will not be as wise as usual. They will also have impulsive and excited emotions, and will be like a fool with low IQ. But if he is still as rational and calm as before, then you need to seriously examine this relationship and don't make excuses for yourself. Judgment in love can easily make people lost.

6. He treats his mother like a queen and you like a commoner.

We all know that men will have an Oedipus complex to a greater or lesser extent, but for a man who falls in love, he at least treats you two equally.

7. He never tries to communicate with your family

If he is bored of hanging out with your family, can't even remember what your relatives look like, or if he makes all kinds of excuses when you invite him to your cousin's wedding, then your relationship needs to be re-examined.

8. His schedule is so full that he doesn’t have time to spend with you.

When he is in love, he should want to be with you all the time, leaving you no time to date other men. This is an animal instinct. If he always hangs out with his buddies, then he may not have a place for you in his heart.

9. He doesn’t pay much attention to how you feel after you make love

After intimacy, if he falls asleep immediately or plays with his phone without saying anything, then he may not care about you very much. Under normal circumstances, he should spend at least ten minutes communicating his intimate feelings with you.

10. Lying

Lying is a taboo in love. If he really loves you and cares about you, he will hide nothing from you.

11. Never give in

In an argument, no matter who is right or wrong, if he truly loves you and cares about you, he will always give in at some point. If he never gives in, then he may not care about this relationship with you.