The three most unexpressible desires of women

The so-called marriage means that I can still live a good life without you, but I am willing to be with you. This is a true marriage. The essence of marriage is to be willing to give everything for each other.

I am willing to do a lot of things for the one I love, willing to give up everything just to make the one I love happy, willing to compromise, willing to go through all the hardships to spend the rest of my life with the one I love.

For two people who truly love each other, the most perfect ending is to form a warm little family together. Marriage is destined to be dull and trivial, but as long as two people tolerate each other and are sincere, they will be able to overcome difficulties together. Generally speaking, women have the following three desires in marriage.

1. Longing for more companionship from men

Women don’t actually ask for much in marriage. They just hope that men can spend as much time as possible with them. A woman's sense of security comes from the company and care of her loved ones. If a man does not come home all day, is often on business trips, or even hangs out with other women under the pretext of working overtime, the woman will definitely feel desperate and full of fear of marriage.

A very important criterion for determining whether a person really cares about the other person is whether the person is willing to spend time with the other person. Everyone is willing to spend time and energy on the people or things they love, and never get tired of it. Similarly, women also desire more companionship from men in marriage. For a woman in marriage, a man’s companionship is the most affectionate confession of his love for her.

2. The desire to manage the family finances

After getting married, women all desire to take control of the family finances, and many men are happy to be hands-off managers. The reason why women are willing to control the family's financial power is, on the one hand, to show their status in the family, and on the other hand, to use this to better control men.

As the saying goes, men become bad when they have money, and women become rich when they become bad. In order to prevent men from cheating, women keep a close eye on their men's wallets, fearing that once their wallets are full, they will go out and spend it on wine and women and do bad things outside.

3. Desire to live separately from the parents-in-law

Since ancient times, it has been difficult to achieve truly harmonious relations between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. For example, there is a young couple born in the 1980s who just got married. One day in the middle of the night, the mother-in-law suddenly broke into the couple's bedroom, carefully covered her son with a quilt, and even kissed her son. As a result, the mother-in-law's series of actions completely angered her daughter-in-law, causing her to clamor for separation.

Of course, this does not mean that the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is irreconcilable or cannot be resolved, but it requires specific analysis based on the specific situation. Generally speaking, women want to live separately from their parents-in-law after marriage so that they can have a more complete world for two people.