Couples should not be too close. "37 degrees" will keep the marriage the longest.

Everyone hopes that their love will be passionate. If the marriage is like this and remains high for a long time, it is easy to "have a fever" and burn each other. Just like human body temperature, the ideal marriage temperature should be kept constant at around 37 degrees Celsius.

A perfect and long-lasting marriage should be a warm pot of essential oil

The basic tone is sweet and rich love, blended with respect, understanding, and tolerance, and dotted with countless tenderness and fragrance. Huang Weiren, a professor at Northwestern University School of Medicine, is known as the "Doctor of Love." In his book, he pointed out that the different understandings of marriage between the two sexes lead to different levels of satisfaction with marriage. Often when a husband rates his marital satisfaction at 7, his wife only gives it 2. This is called the "temperature difference" in marriage. "People who want to maintain their marriage need to have a more objective understanding of the current state of their marriage. Taking the temperature of the marriage is a good way to do it."

Just like human body temperature, the ideal marriage temperature should be kept constant at around 37 degrees Celsius.

Huang Weiren pointed out that such couples treat each other with respect, love and laughter, and although they may quarrel when they have different opinions, they can always find ways to understand each other and resolve conflicts in a reasonable way. Everyone hopes that their love will be passionate. If the marriage is like this and remains high for a long time, it is easy to "have a fever" and burn each other. Huang Weiren believes that some couples are always confronting each other. Both of them are very opinionated and say whatever they want. When they quarrel, they become very emotional and speak very loudly. When people are emotional, they will inevitably say angry words. If there is no timely explanation and communication afterwards, it will easily hurt the partner's self-esteem.

Some wives are too clingy and regard their husbands as their "private property"

They wish they could be together every day, require to know each other's every move, and keep the temperature of the marriage high at all times. This kind of dependent mentality just shows that the wife is spiritually empty or immature. They hope that the other party can accept themselves unconditionally at any time and place and put themselves first. But in the adult world, it will not work to use any form of force on others to satisfy your own psychological needs. And sometimes, the temperature of a marriage can drop to freezing point. In such a marriage, the couple will avoid conflicts for a long time, fail to communicate when encountering problems, and the grudges in their hearts will grow deeper and deeper, until they finally become "cold to each other when they meet." There is an old Chinese saying that "there is no greater sorrow than a dead heart." Couples avoid conflicts because they bring pain to both parties.