The 5 lovers a man wants to meet most in his life

1. The unattainable dream lover:

Such a person may be a star, or a beautiful woman who looks like a star. Anything that touches her will only make a man timid, but he truly admires her in his heart. Such a lover is only suitable to be admired in the heart but not to be obtained. You may have wet dreams because of her, but you dare not even call her in real life.

Suggestion: Don’t get too close to such a woman. The less you know about her, the better. The more you know, the easier it is to become a “friend” and only a friend. It is enough to fantasize about it in your heart. The "Platonic" relationship between lovers can appear more beautiful under the beautiful lighting. This is the legendary "it is better not to steal than to steal."

2. Worship your lover:

A man cannot be without a sense of accomplishment. Always looking up to others will be a man's greatest pain. Men hope to have a woman who follows them willingly and wholeheartedly, not because of her looks, money, career aura, or her eloquence. In "The Heaven Sword and Dragon Saber", Mr. Jin Yong designed two such characters, one is Zhu'er and the other is Xiao Zhao. Xiao Zhao even took the trouble to wash Zhang Wuji's feet, laying the practical foundation for the foot-washing parlours that are everywhere today. She did not seek the best or the highest, but only wanted to wash the feet of her beloved and serve him for the rest of her life.

Suggestion: She won’t ask for anything or interfere with you, and can be said to have no regrets, but you must respect her efforts. Even if you don’t love her deeply, her departure will still make you feel lost.

3. A lover who brings endless sexual satisfaction and pleasure:

Such women may not be very beautiful, but they are versatile, have sexy bodies and are easy to satisfy, making men feel like the manliest ones. In fact, it is very difficult for a man to find a lover for sex. She must be charming and experienced, but she must not give people the feeling of being raped.

You can't moan and haw after working hard for a long time without reaching orgasm, nor can you be satisfied after a few minutes and then clamp your legs together and say: I've had enough, let's take a break. Men really hope to have someone like this who is 100% compatible with them sexually. Pan Jinlian's chance encounter with Ximen Qing can be said to be a typical example.

Suggestion: Such people are hard to come by, but they are also not impossible to find. The key is to do what you can and do more communication and investigation to understand the situation. The most important thing is that the body can only feel when the heart feels.

4. A lover who can help you in your career (finance):

A prince in distress often needs help from a noble person, a talented person who is not appreciated needs support in his career, and even a successful man still desires to develop in more areas and obtain more economic benefits. In fact, this cannot be regarded as a transaction, but a mutual need and reasonable use. In fact, what men need from such women is maternal care. Children who have not been weaned do need to walk a little further with the support of adults.

Suggestion: Never use this woman’s money to pursue another woman. This is something women absolutely cannot tolerate and it is also the most basic morality. People can be stupid for love, but they won’t be “stupid and naive” all their lives. Once you show that you only love her money, you have lost her; a man can accept help from a woman, but he must use it with dignity.

5. A lover who can enhance and satisfy their "sexual confidence":

When a man reaches a certain age, he has money and status, and his wife and long-time lover have become aesthetically fatigued. Most importantly, he has lost his self-confidence in sex. They are very conflicted inside. On the one hand, they hate the fact that little girls would rather exchange their bodies for money and status, getting something for nothing and taking advantage of old men; on the other hand, they desire to get comfort from young women's bodies. The simpler the sexual history, the more popular they are. They don't have to worry about whether the other party is satisfied, but they can have more pleasure and sense of accomplishment of "Lian Po, although old, can still eat".

Suggestion: Don’t let your wife, who controls your financial lifeline, catch you in trouble, and don’t let your lover get pregnant, otherwise all the tall buildings will collapse overnight.