Why do women lack confidence in bed?

Among Chinese women who have had sex, nearly half (47%) are nervous about having sex, which is slightly more than the situation among men (45%). Why do women lack sexual confidence so much?

In life, this kind of thing often happens: a beautiful woman who is pursued and admired by men like the moon in their heart always appears reserved and cautious. Why is this so? Because she doesn't feel her own lovability deep down. Instead, she may focus too much on her shortcomings and magnify them to suppress herself.

When a woman is not satisfied with herself (appearance, figure, body odor, etc.), she dare not let go of her body during sex, fearing that her partner will not be satisfied. It is difficult to truly enjoy sex in this way. Not only will it bring pressure to both parties, but it will also make women's lack of self-confidence increase.

The reason why Chinese women lack sexual confidence is that in the subconscious of the Chinese, if a woman shows a great interest in sex or has excessive demands, she will be considered morally flawed. If things go on like this, women will become inferior and withdrawn from the matter of sex.

Just as some women may ask to turn off the lights before having sex, it is because they are not confident in themselves. On the contrary, if a woman likes herself from the bottom of her heart and thinks she is appreciated, she will be very relaxed when making love, and will be able to mobilize all her energy to stimulate each other's "sexual" interest, while also revealing her own needs and feelings.

Of course, when it comes to sex, a woman's confidence and her partner's appreciation and praise of her are crucial. Therefore, if you want to have a passionate partner in bed, you must praise women generously and encourage them to express their needs more actively. Women also need to learn to communicate proactively in order to improve their sexual confidence.

Sometimes it is better to act than to talk. The matter of having sex especially requires a lot of communication between partners, including communication on each other's sexual preferences, sexual habits, and sexual feelings. Sometimes it's also necessary to take your partner's hand and place it on a certain part of your body to tell her that you like her to do this.

It's better to turn the hint into an explicit suggestion. In fact, women often hint to men when they want to have sex. If men don’t understand the hints, it will make women even less confident and worry that they are not attractive. So women might as well turn hints into explicit statements: for example, make a sumptuous dinner of your partner's favorite and tell him that this dish is good for increasing sexual desire; after dinner, invite him to take a bath together; then put on a sexy pajamas and hold him to sleep, etc.

A woman who loves herself is the most confident. Only a woman who accepts herself from the bottom of her heart can radiate vitality and confidence. This kind of confidence is not just in bed, but in any occasion, it makes you relaxed, confident and powerful, making men feel unable to take their eyes off you.