A person has sex 4200 times in his life, and the first time affects his whole life!

Everyone wants to have a happy sex life, but even the most loving couples are bound to encounter dangerous situations. According to research by British sociologists, the average person has sex 4,200 times in their lifetime, during which they will experience three dangerous periods of sex. Only with correct understanding and adjustment can you get through it smoothly and enjoy a good sex life until old age.

The first sexual intercourse period.

A survey in the United States found that the "first time" may affect a person's sexual satisfaction throughout his life. If the first sexual intercourse fails, the possibility of sexual dysfunction in the future will increase by 13%. Li Hongjun, chief physician of the Department of Urology at Peking Union Medical College Hospital, pointed out that for men, the first time they have sex, they may have difficulty in achieving an erection due to nervousness, which may lead to self-doubt, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and other problems. For women, overly intense movements can easily cause genital damage and pain, which may cause resistance to sexual life and even lead to sexual frigidity.

Countermeasures: First time sex does not only refer to the "first time", but includes the entire period from falling in love to sexual contact and sexual life. During this period, you should understand each other better, be considerate of each other, have sufficient foreplay stimulation, and avoid rough actions. In terms of mentality, you should keep in mind that "there is a long way to go" and don't have too high expectations. The more anxious you are, the more likely you are to fail. In addition, the age of first sexual intercourse should not be too early, otherwise the body and mind are not mature and problems are more likely to occur.

Reproductive period.

The one-year pregnancy and the subsequent pressure after the birth of the child can bring a "sexual crisis" to the couple, and some men may cheat due to physical and emotional needs. At the same time, women may become concerned about their sex life after giving birth and may refuse to have sex.

Countermeasures: Li Huili, a marriage and love expert and national second-level psychological counselor, pointed out that first of all, couples should have a scientific understanding of sexual life during pregnancy, avoid the dangerous early and late pregnancy periods, master the skills, and enjoy sex during pregnancy. Secondly, after the child is born, the couple should strengthen communication, let the child become the bond of emotion, and pay attention to the restoration of postpartum sexual life. Finally, no matter how busy your life is, you must insist on having sex. If necessary, you can ask your elders to help take care of the children so that you can enjoy some time alone.

The seven-year itch.

A survey conducted by the British Marriage and Family Association found that sexual satisfaction between husband and wife drops to the lowest point 7 to 10 years after marriage. The main problems are: a sudden decrease in the frequency of sexual intercourse and a lack of desire for the other party; feeling that sex life is dull and without fun; having extramarital affairs; and problems with sexual function in men.

Countermeasures: Both parties should look at the sexual lull rationally, create opportunities to rediscover the old passion, and never blame each other. Going on vacation, trying new things, and expressing dissatisfactions and expectations can help improve the situation. In short, tolerance and understanding are the most precious things between couples during this period. As long as both parties face it positively, sexual problems can be solved.