5 types of bad men who made her go from a girl to a woman

From girls to women, we inevitably go through various painful transformations. Scumbags are also the driving force behind this transformation. Miriam Yeung said in "Love in a Puff" that everyone will inevitably meet a few scumbags. Yes, we will definitely meet some bad men. Therefore, women, you must open your eyes and see clearly these bad men in sheep's clothing.

The first type of man: You are never the most important person

There is a type of man who will remember to say he loves you, but you will never feel your importance in this relationship. Even the Tower of Saviors in his phone can beat you. If you break up one day, he won't feel any pain.

Before we fall in love, we are first individuals, so of course everyone has things they care about, and what is important varies from person to person. Dating is not everything in life. Loving someone does not mean you have to revolve around that person. But when you find that you are not in the orbit of this person's life at all, that's another matter.

He may not not love you, but he just doesn't love you enough to care about your feelings. There are always a lot of things before you, friends, games, work, family, each one beats you.

The second type of man: the innocent playboy

There is a type of man who insists that women only love bad men. They look harmless on the surface, but they are secretly doing bad things as if it is natural. Finally, it’s your own choice, it’s not up to me.

It doesn't matter if he's bad, but he's so good at hiding himself so harmlessly. He packages himself as so pure and kind, as if falling in love with you accidentally is the only exception in his good record. When he said "It's my fault to fall in love with you" as if condemning himself, only he knew that he was laughing.

He did love all the women around him, but love disappeared so quickly, and in the end he loved himself more than anyone else. In a relationship, he gets bored too quickly. If there is any unhappiness in their lives, he is too lazy to even communicate and would just switch to the next person as quickly as possible.

Finally, one day, you might run into him on campus, with his arm around another junior girl’s shoulder and a smile on his face, without even intending to explain to you. Then you realize that before you, too many predecessors had stood at the crime scene like you, and everyone saw his or her own shadow in the next person. You once thought that you were his salvation, but in the end you overestimated yourself and you couldn't even save yourself.

The third type of man: He only thinks about sex all day long

There is a kind of man who is not interested in you except in bed. Making love seems to be the only way for him to express his love. He says he loves you, but you can't feel his love except when you are having sex.

There are many ways to express love, but for him, it seems that there is only one way to express it, which is to have sex. At first you will think that at least this is his way of saying he wants you, and at least your love is passionate. But after a few times, you suddenly feel that he only cares about his own happiness.

Because when he wants something, you have no say and you have almost no room for negotiation. You feel like you are about to lose your body, and your relationship is becoming more and more like a dangerous gamble, with your body at stake.

If you want to get rid of him completely, besides seeing through his true face, you can also stick to yourself. As long as you insist on being yourself and cherish yourself, this kind of man will be cold to you, or sarcastic, or slowly alienated if he can't get what he wants. In this way, you will truly see that what he wants is not you as a person, but just a young and delicate body.

The fourth type of man: doesn’t love you but won’t let you go

There is a kind of man who doesn’t love but won’t let go. Consider being distant and close as fun; consider procrastination as nostalgia; consider love as a game of giving.

You clearly remember him saying "I don't seem to love you that much anymore", but you feel like he is still by your side, calling you every few days and asking you if you want to go out for a walk as if nothing happened. So every time you see him, you can't help but smile in your heart, thinking "Next, we will rekindle our old love!"

The fifth type of man: the helpless married man

There is a type of man who is very greedy. He wants to hold his wife with his left hand and hug you with his right hand. You can't figure out why he is so good at allocating his time, or why he has to divide his heart between two people.

Being with him, to be honest, you feel happier than ever before. He is mature and steady, without the recklessness and impetuosity of men of your age; he understands you very well and always hears the hidden meaning in your words; he does not specifically ask you who you go out with, because he always trusts you, so you also always deeply trust him. It was not until much later that you discovered the reason why he was busy every Friday night. It turned out that it was their regular family gathering, and he would always attend it with his wife and children.

If you trust him easily, you will become the third party in the eyes of others. When the truth was revealed, he was just a lost prodigal who knew nothing. It was you, the scheming third party, who seduced him and led him astray. Will you still insist on loving such a man? Love is not a reason to be the third party in someone else's relationship.