Men's self-esteem hates women comparing their sexual abilities

What do men hate most about women during sex?

Don't compare your lover with others

When two people are being affectionate, never say anything comparative, such as "You have a great figure, only slightly worse than a certain movie star", "You perform the best among the people I know"... Even if you are sincerely praising the other person, such comparative words can easily cause misunderstandings, making the other person feel that you are thinking about someone else during sex, which will make them feel uncomfortable.

Don't just focus on sex and ignore emotional communication

Sex is inseparable from life and requires a good emotional foundation. If two people do not have any emotional communication and only want to get pleasure through sexual stimulation, not only will it be difficult for them to reach orgasm, but they will also doubt each other's purpose and become increasingly repulsive to sex.

Don't be superstitious about pornographic movies

It is wrong in itself to learn sexual techniques or theories from pornographic works. Pornographic films and TV dramas often use exaggerated and interpretive methods, which can only be used as a spice of sexual life. If you blindly imitate them, it is likely to backfire and reduce sexual desire, causing female sexual frigidity.

Don't multitask

Even though they are being intimate with each other, they still have to check their phones, pay attention to the TV, and even think about work from time to time. When the other person is in love, such behavior can easily be discovered, thus discouraging the other person's enthusiasm and even causing a quarrel.

Don't force or even coerce others

Some couples force themselves to have sex when one of them is in a bad mood. Not only does this fail to achieve a harmonious sex life, it also causes disgust in the bad-tempered party. If this happens repeatedly, it can lead to sexual frigidity in women or impotence in men.