Premarital sex: women's true thoughts

Premarital sex is not a big deal nowadays. But before the 1980s, it was a big deal if a man and a woman had premarital sex. At that time, people were very conservative and men and women had to wait until they got married before they were allowed to have sex. So there is a famous line in a poem: "After a long drought, a drop of sweet water appears. In a foreign land, you meet an old friend. On the wedding night, you pass the imperial examination."

It is also inappropriate to still use the old ideas to look at sexual matters between men and women today.

Nowadays, sex between men and women no longer needs to be so secretive. If they are boyfriend and girlfriend, they must have had sex. If a man still wants to find a virgin as his wife in this era, it is probably harder than climbing to the sky. Of course, there are exceptions, and some people prefer to wait until marriage before engaging in sexual intercourse.

So what do modern women think about premarital sex? What is the reason why women have sex with men in advance? Is it because sexual desire needs to solve physiological problems?

Curious psychology:

As girls enter puberty, their sex hormone levels increase, and as a series of changes occur in their bodies, they also develop a curiosity about sex. These girls engage in sexual activity out of curiosity and the desire to try it out.

Reverse psychology:

The marriages of these girls are often obstructed by their families, relatives, friends and organizations, who forbid them from interacting with their loved ones. As a result, they develop a rebellious mentality and engage in sexual behavior.

It doesn’t matter what psychology:

Influenced by the "sexual liberation" of the West, these girls have an indifferent attitude towards premarital sex, and as a result, things are out of control.

Love psychology:

The two of them went from first love to passionate love, and their feelings were very close, with a feeling that "a day without seeing each other feels like three years". When love reaches a fever pitch, once vows of love are made, sexual intercourse follows. Although these girls feel shy about having an abortion, they do not feel empty or frustrated, and even think that it is a selfless dedication to their boyfriends.

Catering to psychology:

These girls think that their boyfriends are better than themselves in every aspect. When their boyfriends make sexual demands, they silently agree and cater to them for fear of losing them.

Lucky mentality:

After having sexual intercourse for the first time, most people feel nervous and fearful about getting pregnant. But after a long time, I found that nothing happened and started to feel lucky. As a result, I got pregnant.

Submission psychology:

These girls are often threatened and controlled by men when they ask for help in solving problems such as recruiting workers. Even though they are unwilling in their hearts, they still endure and have sex.

Possessiveness:

This type of girl thinks her boyfriend is good, and at the same time, she is competitive with other girls. In order to avoid losing in the competition, she has sexual intercourse, creates a fait accompli, and achieves the purpose of possession.

Concealing psychology:

They often have sex with their boyfriends out of necessity. When their boyfriends make sexual demands, they don't want to do it deep down, but they can't resist and do it.

Through the above analysis, we can see that women's premarital sex is mainly caused by psychological factors. For most women, sex life is mysterious and desirable, so when they try it for the first time, they will do it with the mentality of giving it a try, but over time, their psychology will begin to change, and they will have different feelings about premarital sex.