Several psychological reasons why women are willing to be mistresses

1: I love him, so I don’t care about status

The most annoying thing in life is to see a young and ignorant girl get on board an old man and be willing to be his mistress. It is so painful that one has to swallow all the bitterness alone and end up being cursed.

Of course, it is your right to be willing to sacrifice. Please remember what Master Yi Shu said: Any man who requires you to fight for him is not worth fighting for.

2: No matter how much we love each other, I can’t marry you if you don’t have a house.

In China, the most important thing in marriage is not love or diamonds, but a house. Look at how many girls are competing for houses, and how many girls are breaking up with their husbands because of houses...

Please, girls, I don't think being content with poverty is a necessary virtue for women, but I think that at least you should think about this clearly when choosing friends, interacting with others, and confirming a relationship. Do you have a future foundation for your union? You are so in love that you only think about financial issues when you are about to enter the bridal chamber. Are you stupid? You are wasting each other's time!

3: I want to marry a rich man

Some girls have woken up from that low-level sentimentalism and rushed to the other extreme - everything else is fake, only money is real. So, it is right to marry a rich man.

Please girls: Rich people may have a higher happiness index, according to polls. But that's a rich man.

You don't know what the happiness index of a rich man's wife is, right? Your existence is only a part of the rich man's happiness index...

4: Having a son means everything ends

After raising children, one believes that the family has been established and one's own happiness has reached the Western Paradise. Lifelong happiness is assured... Can the husband run away after having a child? Even if he runs away, don’t we still have a son?... Treat your husband and children as pillars, and yourself like a bitch tied to the pillar. If the pillar runs away, you will bark and bite it. Although you have given your all to them, they may not necessarily be grateful to you and also hope that they are your all.

5. Treat early love as a lifelong career

Everyone falls in love early. Plants bloom in due time, cats call in due season, and when the human body matures, sexual desire will also arise. Maybe you have secretly liked a boy or a girl since you were a child. These are all normal human impulses. But God knows what is going on. There is a group of brainless girls who are as anxious as cats in heat, thinking that youth is only about being unrestrained. They have boyfriends early on, whether young or old, and throw themselves on them without hesitation, even if they don’t want to go to school or have a family. It seems that their whole life is burning at this moment, and after these two years, the earth will be destroyed and the universe will explode...

Please, your life has just begun. Even if you fall in love prematurely, don't sacrifice your career, future, and studies, okay?

6. Sex as a Devotion

The biggest illusion Chinese girls have is that they think their bodies do not belong to them.

But it belongs to a man in the future. Moral people are the ones who are swaying, pulling, and beating.

Some vicious male writers have tampered with it, saying that a woman's body belongs to her future beloved - she should give it to whoever she loves. Both of these views are equally ridiculous. Your body is yours. It is the only thing in this world that truly belongs to you and the thing you should treat best. There are always some silly girls who fall in love early and naturally become sexually active early. Once I was tricked, I offered myself up as a gift...

Please, girl, think carefully, your body and the consequences belong to you alone. You are young and you don’t even know how to experience the joy of sex, but you have to bear so many consequences such as pregnancy, abortion, being fired, and even being ruined!

7: Devoted but didn’t know how to use contraception

It is said that there are now a large number of underage girls going to hospitals for abortions. Some grieving and angry girls often mentioned in their conversations that they were in great pain from having an abortion for him.

Please, girl, of course, the man who refuses to use condoms to get his partner pregnant is a jerk, a jerk, and a jerk, but you have to learn to insist and refuse, right? If that doesn't work, you have to learn to take other contraceptive measures, right?

8: From now on, I belong to him

This is the most hopelessly stupid thing I've ever heard a girl say. No matter it happens out of a momentary impulse, confusion, mutual affection or deep love, they all regard the occurrence of sexual relations as a watershed that will shake the world. From now on, I am his! There are even cases where a girl, after being raped by a date, simply becomes the man's girlfriend.

Come on girl, it is possible to accidentally step on dog poop. This kind of bad luck happens to everyone, but if you step on dog poop, do you plan to wear it as shoes?

9: He sucks but I still love him

The most outrageous facts I heard while listening to his stories were that he had three mistresses and concubines, and he had one-night stands many times, but I still loved him. He beat me up on average about once a week, and I forgave him anyway. He doesn't work, he just plays cards, gambles and takes drugs, but I still don't want to leave him...

Come on girl, who told you that love is without principles? Even masochists say that there must be a limit to the harm!