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Sexual methods also need to be constantly updated. A smart wife will seize every opportunity to cooperate with her husband skillfully, try new sexual methods, and enhance "sexual interest". It is wrong for a wife to let her husband control her or wait passively during sex. Under the wrong premise, although your husband can complete his "job", he will only finish it hastily and feel lost.

You must let your husband see that you are very interested in sex life, so that he will devote his full attention to it out of a sense of responsibility and will vent his feelings to the fullest, and then you will get more and more complete sexual pleasure and enjoyment.

As a smart wife, you should activate your sexual interest and not ignore it...

1. You may actively masturbate a few times to get familiar with yourself, understand yourself, and achieve the goal of increasing your "sexual interest".

Masturbation is not a shameful act, and it is one-sided and wrong to completely deny it. Some women's masturbation behavior is out of control, affecting and destroying the normal sex life of the couple, which is not advisable; however, if you masturbate consciously and purposefully, you can understand your own reproductive organs through masturbation and discover your most sensitive and most excited parts, so as to "guide" your husband in future sex life.

Therefore, masturbation at this time has positive significance. Not only will it not cause you psychological burden, but on the contrary it will increase your "sexual interest" and promote the harmony of the couple's sexual life.

Once you discover your true self through masturbation or even with the help of a mirror, you will become more confident and your sexual interest will increase greatly.

2. You may want to admire your body in the mirror and identify your strengths and advantages.

If you are overweight, consider yourself plump. If you are thin, consider yourself slim. Both plumpness and slimness are advantages of women.

Even if your skin color is darker, it doesn't matter, it's a sign of health; if your skin is white, it's even better. How many men don't like a woman with pure and innocent skin?

Doing this is not bragging, but a firm belief that you must first have "sexual interest" in everything about yourself; if you have no "sexual interest" and hold an indifferent attitude towards sex life, then your husband's interest will also decrease sharply.

3. You may wish to draw "stimulants" from the media to stimulate your "sexual interest".

Some women with pure thoughts and behaviors often do not like to accept sexual revelations and experiences from anyone other than their husbands. They simply rely on their innate experience and "inspiration" to repeat an old "story" year after year. They thought this was enough, but many husbands gradually felt dissatisfied.

If you really love your husband and want him to see a different you every day, you must learn to absorb nutrients from various media.

For example, newspapers and books, by reading "History of Sex" and "Report on Sea Sexology", you will sincerely feel that sex is indeed a science, and its knowledge is as vast as the ocean. It is by no means a simple and primitive mechanical operation. You can master various positions and methods of sexual intercourse between couples. Sexual media can also play a big role for you who are already married and have sexual experience - touching your nerves, promoting your "inspiration", and activating your "sexual interest".

4. Think of sex as an interesting game.

You must have had an active and memorable childhood, playing various games with your friends every day. You were very engaged and serious when playing games. Most of the time, you would forget to go home to do your homework and eat because of playing games. Why did you forget everything else?

Because you're interested in the game you make, it's that simple. But when you grow up, get married and start a family, you may lose interest in everything outside of life due to hard work and heavy housework, and even lose interest in sexual life, which is an important part of life.

You are wrong to do this. If you are perfunctory about sex life and have low sexual interest, you will gradually lose your husband's love for you, and it may even cause him to fall in love with someone else and the family to fall apart. The right way to treat sex life is to treat it as a childhood game, not to be stingy with the time of a meal or a wonderful TV show. If you really treat sex as a game, you will return to your childhood, devote yourself to it, and have unrestrained "sexual interest".

5. You may want to change the environment, location and method of your sexual life, which will help improve your sexual interest.

The saying "constantly change and always innovate" is very suitable for the sexual life of couples. The unchanging environment and location will make both parties feel stale, and the old-fashioned and primitive sexual methods will make both parties feel boring. Once these feelings arise, a careful wife should make appropriate updates and adjustments. There are many specific ways to update and adjust.

If you have always had sex at night, you might as well use your leisure time to find an opportunity during the day to stretch your body under the sunshine, which will definitely give you a new feeling; if you have always done things in the dark, you might as well turn on the lights and let the soft light caress your tenderness; if you have always been sweet and happy in your own little nest, you might as well rent a hotel or be intimate in a rented room and enjoy the unique joy of sex.