Five reasons why women cheat

Recently, there have been frequent reports in the entertainment industry about men finding mistresses, and women also cheating, such as Dong Jie and other female stars. Nowadays, cheating has become a common thing, and women cheating incidents also happen frequently. So, why do women cheat? What are the sexual psychology of women during cheating?

Long-term sexual dissatisfaction

Women need nourishment, including love and sex. Women have sex because of love. Without love, their desire for sex will shrink. Long-term dissatisfaction with marriage will put women in a state of double hunger for love and sex. At this time, if there is another man who takes the initiative to care about her and appreciate her, the woman will use him to fill the emptiness and hunger without hesitation, and mistake the extramarital affair for true love.

Advice: If problems within a marriage are dragged into a third party or even a second family, the relationship will become more complicated and more difficult to resolve. Trying to let someone outside the marriage solve the problems within the marriage is like a little bear licking honey on the tip of a knife, risking cutting his tongue for a little sweetness.

Have rich sexual fantasies

Generally speaking, women with rich sexual fantasies are easily aroused. The so-called sexiness is not only about the charm of appearance, but also about the ability to have sexual fantasies in the mind. Women with rich sexual fantasies naturally need more opportunities to realize their sexual dreams. When the right man appears, they are naturally more tempted.

Advice: Thinking about it in your mind is one thing, but once your sexual fantasies are turned into actions, you have to bear the consequences that follow.

Using sex to gain love

The more inferior a woman is to the point where she has no self, the more she hopes to please a man by satisfying his sexual needs, and hopes to gain his love through her own dedication. They mistakenly interpret a man's sexual desire for her as "he loves me because he wants to have sex with me." Unable to fulfill their desire for love, women have to exchange it for sex.

Advice: Sex cannot buy love, it only deepens the hurt. Start by learning to love yourself.

Early sexual trauma

There are two important stages of sexual psychosexual development in a woman's life: the first stage is from 4 to 6 years old, when she develops her first sexual awareness through her relationship with her parents; the second stage is during adolescence. If the sexual psychology development in these two stages is not smooth, women's sexual consciousness will become abnormal, such as fetishism, sexual addiction, frigidity and so on. Many of women’s sexual psychological problems are problems left over from these two periods.

Advice: Find the source of the trauma and start healing early, it’s not too late to be happy.

Using sex to relieve stress

When modern people face stress and emptiness, the quickest way to relieve it is to vent, which also includes venting sexual desire. Having carefree sex with a stranger in a strange place seems to be the cheapest way to vent. Who knows that after a short-lived pleasure, everything will surround you again, and the feeling of powerlessness will deepen.

Advice: Sex is not a panacea for all ills. Relieving stress and emptiness through sex is like walking in a circular maze.