How do men and women learn to communicate as partners?

How love, marriage and sex influence each other

Love, marriage and sex, let's see what happens when one of the three is missing. First of all, what is the combination of love and sex? It is mostly a foolish love between lovers and is not protected by law. You can swear to each other at the beginning, but in the long run there will inevitably be disputes over status, which often become a mess. What if there is only marriage and love but no sex? It is just a kind of companionate love and it is difficult to last. The fire of lust will inevitably burn the empty love to ashes. Finally, if there is no love in marriage but only sex and restraint, both parties become tools for each other to vent their desires. Although it is romantic and exciting, no matter how delicious a meal is, there will be a time when you lose your appetite. Without love, there will be no spiritual support and the building of marriage will still collapse.

If two of the three are missing, it will be even more miserable. Marriage without love and sex is purely a bondage, and love without marriage and sex is as empty as falling into a bottomless abyss, from which you cannot jump out even if you want to. As for sex without marriage and love, it becomes a naked transaction - either power and sex, or money and sex.

How men and women learn to communicate with each other

Although men are more likely to have communication deficiencies, in reality, many women do not do very well either. Some women who seek sex counseling or sex therapy say that they have never communicated with their husbands about their sexual feelings, needs, and satisfaction. In fact, when making love, most men will always ask the other party how they feel, whether they are satisfied, and whether they reached orgasm, but their answers are always "ok", "pretty good", "I can't tell", or they simply hesitate and don't answer. Such shy answers often leave the man scratching his head, not knowing whether what he is doing is right or wrong, and how to improve and enhance himself. If this goes on for a long time, the woman will be very angry, she will never reach orgasm, and she dare not express her sexual demands; the man will also not be at ease, from being cautious to being uninterested, how can the quality of the couple's sex life be discussed? The key is that women themselves should have the courage to explore their own bodies, find out their own sexual sensitive areas, stimulate them effectively, and communicate frankly with each other, and apply these experiences to the sex life of both parties. This will effectively solve many sexual difficulties faced by women. Otherwise, if women themselves do not understand their own bodies, how can they expect others to see through and understand their bodies thoroughly? Many women often fall into an extremely contradictory psychology. On the one hand, they have normal sexual demands, but on the other hand, they are unwilling to succumb to the other party's demands, so the two sides quarrel over sexual issues. Some women believe that sex is a matter of great disadvantage for women and great advantage for men, as if submitting to men's sexual demands is a kind of sacrifice. This is even more influenced by negative and wrong sexual views. Deep down, they regard sex as something obscene, dirty or a sin, which are absurd misconceptions.