If a woman has this reaction, it means you are really "great"

Men all want their women to enjoy the pleasure of orgasm during sex, so how can women have an orgasm during sex?

Treat your sexual organs correctly

Women who can easily reach orgasm all talk about how they have a correct understanding of their sexual organs, know how to take good care of them, and can happily play their special role. On the contrary, women who find it difficult to reach orgasm hate their sexual organs or feel ashamed of them. Therefore, when pleasure arises from these organs, they do not accept it happily but reject it in confusion. Obviously, if even the initial pleasure is blocked, how can one develop to the extreme of orgasm?

Taking pleasure from sex as the sole purpose

When interviewed by sex experts, women who can easily reach orgasm all said that the purpose of their sexual activities is to get pleasure, so they can take an active and enthusiastic attitude and dare to ask their spouses to cooperate. But this is not the case with some other women. While they are engaging in sexual activities, they are still thinking about other things. For example, some women suspect that their husbands are having an affair, so they want to take this opportunity to observe whether he has any abnormalities; some women want to please their husbands, so they pay close attention to their husbands' reactions; and some women are very concerned about conception, so they always pay attention to whether their husbands ejaculate. Whatever the situation, they focus their energy on others instead of putting it all into their sex life, which is why it is difficult for them to orgasm.

Put everything else aside in bed

A woman who can easily reach orgasm said: "Once I get into bed, I can put all the unhappiness behind me and only think about the pleasure of sex. Then my whole body feels relaxed, excited, and enjoyable... and finally I reach orgasm." It would of course be great if you could consciously relax yourself like this woman and adjust your mood to the best state. But for most women, it seems a little difficult for them to do this immediately. But they must at least understand that negative emotions such as worry, anxiety, anger, and distraction can divert attention from sexual pleasure and dilute the experience of sexual pleasure. After understanding this principle, we should work hard to create a good state of mind. You may not be able to relax effectively after deciding to have sex, but you can definitely seek sexual contact after relaxing. You may not be able to create good emotions, but you can avoid unpleasant ones.

Having a good mood does not guarantee that you can concentrate on sex, because there are still many small things that distract you. Although these things are insignificant, they are the most common obstacles that affect women's sexual satisfaction. For example, when you are making love, you suddenly hear a child crying from next door, or the phone rings suddenly, or the wind blows open an open door or window. These unexpected sounds will immediately divert a woman's attention and cause the brain to prevent the body from experiencing sexual pleasure.

In order to create a romantic atmosphere for their sex life, some couples play music while having sex. According to reports from sex experts, this method does not produce the desired effect, but instead has adverse effects. Many people are easily attracted by the melody of music, which hinders their sexual feelings. If songs with lyrics are played, the damaging effect will be even more serious.