Good men should understand their wives' implicit expressions

When both spouses have a need for intimacy, the question arises as to how to express this need. Of course the best way to express it is to send sexual signals to each other. It not only cleverly expresses each other's wishes, but also does not have to worry about being rejected by the other party and hurting their self-esteem.

It is often women who use sexual signals. For example, after get off work or after watching a movie, the husband and his wife return home. After taking a shower, the wife says, "Let's go to bed early!" The husband thinks his wife is tired, so he says to her, "You go to bed first, I'll do the laundry and then I'll go to bed." When the husband finishes doing the laundry, he notices that his wife is still asleep, so he hugs her, but she pushes him away and just covers herself with the quilt and goes to sleep. The husband didn't know that the reason his wife was angry was because he had just refused his wife's request to "go to bed early". He didn't understand that his wife asking him to go to bed early was actually sending him a sexual signal.

Sex life is an important part of a couple's life, and a happy family should have a healthy and harmonious sex life. For a long time, people have believed that the husband is the "active party" in sexual life, while the wife is the "passive party". This is a very one-sided misunderstanding.

Both men and women have certain sexual demands, but women are often too shy to talk about them. Once they have sexual desire, they often like to send signals to their husbands in a more subtle and introverted way, such as urging their husbands to go to bed early as mentioned above; or the wife may take the initiative to hug her husband, kiss her husband, or change underwear in front of her husband, or lie down in beautiful pajamas, etc. These may be sexual signals sent by the wife.

If the husband is not good at observing his wife's words and expressions and fails to receive these signals, it will cause psychological harm to his wife, which will affect the harmony of their sexual life. Over time, it will also cause his wife's sexual desire to decrease, and even affect the relationship between the couple. Therefore, as a husband, you should pay more attention to actively receiving your wife's signals and respond accordingly. Of course, as a wife, you should not send out all kinds of signals in an ever-changing manner. You should express the love in your heart to avoid causing misunderstandings and affecting your relationship.