16 Sexual Secrets Between Men and Women You Don’t Know

The harmony of a couple's sexual life is something that requires the joint efforts of both parties. It also requires both parties to have a very clear understanding of sexual behavior. They should not only be aware of their own bodies and sexual signals, but also have a clear understanding of each other's body structure and sexual sensitive areas.

Men

1. Women have much less sexual desire than men

The truth: False. Women's sexual desire is often linked to their inner emotions, but they actually have just as much sexual desire as men. It’s just that their sexual desire is more internalized, and they usually won’t express it directly due to shyness, fear, etc.

2. As long as the woman is willing, she can do it again no matter how tired she is.

The truth: False. In women's so-called multiple orgasms and sequential orgasms, both their body and mind are immersed in the sensations of the body. But sex requires both physical and mental commitment. Since you are so tired, how can you do it again? Even if you force yourself to do it again, you won't act as if you are committed.

3. Direct sexual intercourse can make women reach orgasm quickly

The truth: False. Generally speaking, it is impossible. Regardless of gender, there is a physiological process of sexual arousal. Only when the man and woman have gone through the passionate foreplay, their emotions have reached a high level of harmony and their body and mind have entered a warm and focused state, can they reach climax.

4. You can tell when a woman reaches orgasm by observing her expressions.

The truth: False. It is easy to backfire if you just observe people's words and expressions. To judge whether the other person has reached climax, you need to observe his or her words and expressions and have a good grasp of your own physical and mental state. Otherwise, it is easy to cool down and make sex impossible to continue.

5. When a woman says "no", she actually means "yes"

The truth: Not necessarily. This cannot be understood unless she sends out other "sexual signals". If you always take "no" as "yes" and ignore her expression and the specific situation, you will definitely misunderstand and hurt her.

6. Women’s sexual desire comes slower than men’s

The truth: False. From a physiological point of view, women's sexual desire is not much different from men's. However, due to cultural and psychological influences, women's initial attitude towards sex goes through a process of rejection, repression, gradual acceptance, and then enjoyment. Sometimes, driven by emotions and other psychological factors, women progress faster than men.

7. Women can reach multiple orgasms during one intercourse

The truth: False. Only a small number of women can experience multiple orgasms one after another, accounting for only about 10%, so this does not mean that all women can have multiple orgasms. If the man does not perform well, some women may not even have an orgasm during sex.

8. Women don’t like caressing their partner’s genitals

The truth: False. Because women usually like men to touch parts of their bodies other than their genitals before they can become excited. Therefore, women will caress their partner's other parts first and then their sexual organs, because they feel that this process can make each other excited. If a man wants to get straight to the point, just tell him what you need.

Women

9. Men’s minds are always full of sex

The truth: Of course not. Due to differences in physiological structure, men's desire for sex is greater than women's, but in fact, men have many important things to consider besides sex, such as career, future, entertainment, etc. They do not reject sex, but they do not necessarily indulge in sexual fantasies every minute of every day.

10. Sex should always be initiated by men

Truth: No. In sex, both parties just need to be in harmony with each other, there is no such thing as should or should not. Just imagine that if men are always the ones who take the initiative in sexual demands, they will feel unwanted and worthless. Over time, he will become tired and lose interest in sex.

11. Men can get excited whenever they want.

Truth: This is impossible. There is a process for both men and women to reach sexual arousal. Although it is relatively easy for men to put aside what is happening in front of them and enter a state of sexual excitement, the prerequisite is that men are in a good mental state. Otherwise, men cannot get excited even if they want to.