A small catchphrase holds a big secret

In daily life, if you want to get to know the man in front of you and understand him more deeply, instead of simply staying on superficial rhetoric, it is better to pay more attention to his catchphrases, because at this time he has unknowingly revealed his psychological secrets.

1. "Really, honestly, indeed, I'm not lying to you"

These catchphrases are common to both men and women and are often found in our daily lives. The person who said this may have told too many lies, which made others less trustworthy and always doubt him. As a result, such catchphrases often appear in daily life, hoping to increase the credibility of one's words.

This kind of person is worried that others will misunderstand him/her. He/she has an impatient personality and often feels unfair inside. If he hadn't told so many "wolf" lies, people wouldn't have misunderstood him so often. Therefore, when dealing with such people, you should be wary of whether they often tell lies in their words and don't fall into their trap.

2. “Should, must, will”

This person has great self-confidence and appears to be very rational. He will not jump to conclusions before confirming something. He is a calm person and believes that he can convince others and make them believe in him. Making others believe in him will make them feel strongly identified and happy.

On the other hand, when he says "should" too much, it reflects that he has a "wavering" mentality. The reason for his hesitation was not that he had no confidence in himself, but because of his inner desire for recognition. He did not want to lose his prestige in the future because of a mistake.

3. “I heard, it is said, I heard someone say”

Perhaps this type of person believes very much in what he says, but does not want to leave himself room for maneuver, so he uses this kind of catchphrase. It is formed out of the mentality of leaving himself room for maneuver. Although this kind of person has broad knowledge, he lacks decisiveness and is not suitable to be a leader. However, his tactful approach and ability to protect himself are worthy of great praise.

He is thoughtful in everything and leaves room for himself so that he doesn't have to take on big responsibilities, which protects himself well. This is especially common among many leaders.

4. “Maybe, perhaps, probably”

People who speak this way have a strong self-defense instinct and will not fully reveal their inner thoughts. You are calm in dealing with things and people, so you have good work and interpersonal relationships, which also means retreating to advance. But it is difficult for you to enter his inner world and know what you want.

Once things become clear, they will say, "I expected this." He doesn't need to take responsibility when something goes wrong, but takes credit when things go well. He is extremely good at disguising himself and hides his true feelings.

Core Tip: In daily life, if you want to get to know the man in front of you and understand him more deeply, instead of simply staying on superficial sweet talk, you might as well pay more attention to his catchphrases, because at this time he has unknowingly revealed his psychological secrets.

5. “But”

This type of person is somewhat willful, therefore, when others point out his mistakes, he always comes up with a "but" to defend himself, and these are used to protect himself.

He has a gentle temperament and speaks tactfully without any decisive words, which avoids making people feel left out or lost. They speak tactfully, which makes it easier for you to get along with each other. When you fall in love with this kind of person, you will find that you can discuss everything and there will be no fierce quarrels. He will give in to you and protect you like a gentleman.

6. “Ah, ah, this, this, um, um”

These catchphrases have few words and sound a bit like perfunctory agreement. These catchphrases reflect that men think slowly and react slowly, and they often use these words as intervals to buy themselves time to think. This also reflects the man's thoughtful and mature characteristics.

Of course, in daily life, if he often says these catchphrases to you, it proves that he is a bit perfunctory and doesn't really care about it. If you want to get his attention, you have to put in more effort.

7. "Leave it to yourself"

A responsible man always hopes to take on the responsibility of the family alone without his lover having to worry about him. Sometimes when you want to help, he will say "Don't worry about it".

When hearing this, women find it hard to accept and feel a little rejected, but the man may not mean to reject you or give you a cold shoulder. He just really doesn't want you to worry and hopes you can live a peaceful life. Therefore, don’t take such a sentence to heart and let it affect your relationship.

Then again, love is a matter between two people, and if problems arise, it is always better for two people to share the burden than for one person to bear it alone. Perhaps the man who said this is influenced by his chauvinism. He believes that a good man must take responsibility for everything. You can both communicate and make him realize that the family is the responsibility of both of you, and that you also have the responsibility and obligation to contribute to the family. In this way, I believe your relationship can last longer.

A small catchphrase hides a big secret. Pay more attention to it and you will understand him better.