7 differences between men and women in sex life: Men often think that women are the most fickle

Men think about sex more often

Professor Lauman found that among men under the age of 60, most people think about sex at least once a day on average, and have far more spontaneous sexual arousal than women. Among women, only 25% have this frequency.

As age increases, sexual fantasies decrease for both men and women, but overall, men still have sexual fantasies twice as often as women.

Men are more "obsessed" with sex

Studies have found that men have more frequent sexual activity than women. Most men want more than one sexual partner in their lifetime, and they are more interested in casual sex.

Two-thirds of men admit to masturbating regularly, compared to only 40% of women, and their frequency is much lower than that of men.

Women’s sexual orientation is more fluid

Researchers at Northwestern University in the United States played erotic films to a group of volunteers and asked them about their level of sexual arousal. At the same time, actual sexual arousal was measured using instruments attached to their genitals.

The results showed that men's sexual orientation was very clear. But the results for women were intriguing. Heterosexual women reported being more aroused by sex with either man or woman, but measurements showed they were equally aroused by all sexual activities. The study suggests that women are more "fluid" and open to same-sex love.

Women's sexual behavior and mate selection are more influenced by society and culture

A man's original motivation for having sex is to pass on his genes and have his own offspring. Women are very cautious when choosing a partner because they have to bear the burden of pregnancy and child care, so they pay more attention to the quality of the relationship and living conditions, hoping to find a man who can be by their side to help them.

Women's sexual satisfaction requires more preparation

New York psychotherapist Esther Parrier once said that a woman's sexual desire is between her ears, not between her legs. In other words, romantic sweet talk can make them more excited.

During sex, women need romantic plots, and psychological expectations can fuel their desires. Men don't need this kind of preparation.

For them, the simpler and more direct the sexual intercourse, the better the effect. But this does not mean that men do not need intimacy, because in their eyes, sex itself is a "language" to express tenderness and love, and it is the highest state of fusion of spirit and flesh.

Orgasm experience is different for both sexes

It takes an average of 4 minutes for men to go from penetration to ejaculation, while it takes women at least 10-11 minutes from penetration to orgasm. 75% of men in marriage said they can always reach orgasm, compared to only 26% of women.

And the two sexes also perceive orgasm differently: Women can accurately point out their partner's orgasm rate, while men believe that their partners can reach orgasm most of the time.

Drugs can hardly stimulate women's sexual desire

Men's libido is more biological and therefore more easily enhanced through medical treatment. But it is not so easy to find an "aphrodisiac" for women.

Previous studies have shown that androgen levels can affect women's sexual desire, but clinical use of androgen patches has found that their effects are not ideal. "If a woman has low libido, her chances of recovering it are less than 50 percent."