The four peaks of desire in a woman's life

Marriage may not be the grave of love, but it may be the legal "fuse" to the peak of love. From mutual affection (love before marriage) to physical intimacy (sexual behavior after marriage) is a qualitative leap in sexual activity. The sense of happiness, security, mutual trust, and novelty and exploration of sexual life brought by marriage are all the psychological basis of the "honeymoon peak". Although many women cannot experience orgasm in the initial stage after marriage, in an atmosphere full of tenderness and love, driven by sexual instinct, they will still feel great joy in sexual activities and actively and wholeheartedly devote themselves to the sex life after marriage. Therefore, for most couples, the frequency of sexual intercourse in the first year of marriage is probably the highest in their lives. There is a doggerel that begins with "Seven times in one night on the first day of marriage", which is an exaggerated and vivid portrayal of this peak.

The "Freedom Peak" that creates new life

At the beginning of their marriage, due to family planning arrangements, many young couples do not want to have children for the time being and need to take contraceptive measures during their sexual life, which will more or less affect their freedom in sexual activities. Once they decide to have a baby, they will be freed from the mental burden of fear of unplanned pregnancy and from certain contraceptive measures that may affect the consistency of sexual activity. The unrestrained, carefree, relaxed and free devotion, the excitement and excitement of creating new life often bring women a second peak of sexual desire. If you are taking birth control pills, since birth control pills often suppress the production of your own sex hormones, stopping them will increase your own production of sex hormones, thereby increasing your sexual desire. After pregnancy, from the third to the sixth month after pregnancy, the body's sex hormones increase significantly, and the blood flow to the sexual organs and breasts increases, which can also lead to increased sexual desire.

"Like Wolf Peak" who will make more demands

People have long known that, physiologically speaking, a man's sexual desire peaks at around the age of 20. When he reaches his 30s or 40s, his sexual desire gradually becomes flat and his sexual ability begins to gradually decline. For many women, their sexual desire often increases when they are in their thirties or forties, which is in stark contrast to that of men. People often use the phrase "like a wolf and a tiger" to describe women at this stage in a mocking tone. In fact, women's increased sexual desire during this period has its physiological and psychological basis and is completely normal.

The "Tiger Peak" of Romantic Second Spring

Women in their forties, often with their spouses who are successful in their careers and have a good family income, and their children have grown up, can be partially or completely freed from household chores such as buying, washing, cooking, and taking care of children, and can begin to focus on taking care of themselves and satisfying themselves again, thus entering a romantic "second spring". In recent years, a study by the University of Chicago in the United States has shown that women in their forties are more likely to reach orgasm during sexual intercourse than women of any other age group. Couples in their forties tend to be more compatible and tacit in their sex lives. The woman is more focused on pursuing the extreme joy of orgasm and is prone to having "tiger-like" desires. Men are more focused on skin-to-skin intimacy and no longer concentrate on contact of sexual organs. They are not in a hurry to reach orgasm, but like the warmth and pleasure brought by touch and caress. In this way, the wonderful feeling before orgasm is prolonged, the woman can get more sexual satisfaction, and the sex life is taken to a higher level. If you can pay attention to maintaining this high and ideal state of sexual activity, then even if the woman enters menopause or even after menopause, she can still continue to have a happy sex life.