The alternative "technical virgin" that men can't afford to offend

Technical virgins refer specifically to those who have had premarital sex but whose hymen has not been broken. They subjectively want to maintain "purity", firstly, to comply with the traditional moral norms of society; secondly, to fulfill their parents' teachings on observing traditional moral concepts; thirdly, they have high self-esteem and regard the hymen as a bet, a talisman and a totem for loving themselves, believing in themselves and wanting men to love them all their lives.

Technical virginity does not include "virginity" in which the hymen has been repaired through plastic surgery

Humans are not plants. During the passionate contact with her boyfriend, she developed a very intimate relationship with him, including kissing, hugging, living together, sleeping naked, oral sex, masturbation, friction of the vaginal opening, orgasm, etc. As far as purity is concerned, they cannot be pure, but since their hymen has not been broken, they can subjectively maintain a pure moral height and psychological satisfaction in order to gain their boyfriends' trust and cherishment. Even if they have slept with boyfriend after boyfriend and done everything with them, as long as they stick to the bottom line of not having their hymen broken, they can openly wave the flag and shout slogans on the road of morality.

If you meet a good next boyfriend, just say, "I've been waiting for you. I've always been a virgin and I want to save the best things for you!" If you meet an unsatisfactory boyfriend, just say, "I'm a virgin and you can't touch me." You can attack or defend, and you can advance and retreat freely. There are many skilled virgins who pretend to be virgins and cry out in pain on their wedding bed. You say she is fake, but she is not being pretentious; you say she is real, but she has seen countless men, is even an expert in this, has seen a lot of men, and knows everything about men. How to say it? So now, not only do women feel insecure, but men are also less trusting of women. It’s just because of the patriarchal tradition and men’s face that men are just pretending to be stupid.

This type of girl has the following personality traits: shrewd, intelligent, strong-willed, independent-minded, self-loving, high self-esteem, knowing what she wants, not willing to act until she sees the rabbit, rigid, timid, sensitive, suspicious, likes to influence men, and likes to have the upper hand, etc.

There is a kind of woman called 'technical virgin'

An intellectual elite described these women like this: "There is a type of woman called 'technical virgins.' In order to flaunt their so-called moral nobility and purity, they desperately protect their hymen. In order to protect this membrane, they actually do everything, more than ordinary women, but they just don't break the membrane. In this way, they will have a sense of moral superiority over those non-virgins." Because the person who said this is a man, he is speaking from a man's perspective. In fact, these so-called technical virgins want to have a sense of moral superiority over non-virgins. This is not their real psychology of keeping their bottom line and defense line. The real psychology is what I said before, that they want to do it for men to see! These men include: boyfriends, husbands, fathers, male friends, etc. They can use this to gain love and affection, and can also use it at any time to repel those women who want to steal her men, as well as those women they don't like, to maintain their psychological advantage.

The wife of a businessman, her husband cheated on her and wanted a divorce. She pulled her husband's clothes and said, "I was a virgin when I married you, was she?" The husband frowned and worried about the mistress's impurity: What should I do?! The mistress said, "She is a virgin, and so am I!" The wife responded, "I heard that you have been with countless men. You must have paid to repair your hymen." The mistress was furious: "I'll kill myself if I have it repaired!" The man was almost worried to death. What should he do? I was the one who took both virgins. Who should I be with?!

Being a technical virgin is also an option

From a positive psychology perspective: they are a force in maintaining social norms. From a negative psychological perspective: they are hypocritical, false, and "want to be a whore and also want to be a saint."

How can we be better women? This is the difficult question of the century. Especially today when morality has broken the bottom line, it is indeed difficult for women to be. If we are not open, we will not be able to keep up with the world trend; if we are too open, we will lose the basic moral compass; if we are half open and half closed, we will sing with a pinched voice, which is too discordant and false. A technical virgin is probably the latter. She wants to moan in bed, but is afraid that men will think she is slutty. So, after getting through the hurdles of the honeymoon and the marriage, she indulges herself.

If you want hypocrisy, you cannot have humanity. Of course, human nature itself has a hypocritical part. Technical virgins have endured a lot of impulses, restlessness and itchiness. If you pay, you will get something. Shouldn't they be allowed to gain some nobility compared to non-virgins? And the benefits from men?

Being a technical virgin is also an option. If a woman chooses to be a technical virgin, she must accept her behavior and live authentically, so that she can live well!