The secret weapon that makes men irresistible

You meet someone and fall in love. If everything goes well, you will live a happy life in the future. Relationships should be simple, but finding the right person for you isn't.

In his new book, Love Decoded, author Andrew Treece writes that scientific research and statistics provide us with the best help in finding romantic love.

Smile at him and 60% of men will fall for it. In a crowded room, you find a man you like. How can you strike up a conversation with him? Remember, don't wander around or offer to buy him a drink.

Studies show that women who initiate conversations with men in public generally leave a bad impression. Scientists say that verbal communication is not necessary to be successful, and some subtle hints are often very effective.

For example, eye contact is very important, and it would be even better if you can smile slightly. But how far do you want to go?

In a 1985 study, scientists had a very attractive woman stand three meters away from a target man and then saw what motivated him to approach her within 10 minutes. The scientists found that they changed their communication methods in many different ways, sometimes they looked at each other, sometimes one party smiled at the other, and sometimes both parties smiled at each other.

Men not only need encouragement, but they need a lot of encouragement and encouragement in various forms. After making eye contact many times, if the woman does not smile, her chances of successfully striking up a conversation with the man are basically no more than 20%.

In order to successfully strike up a conversation with a man she likes, a woman must not only make eye contact with the man, but also accompany it with a smile. If she does this, 60 percent of the men will eventually approach her and end up talking to her.

"Smiling at him generously" is by far the most effective way for women to attract men's attention. Women who worry that they are not attractive enough will often get good news if they use this method. The signals a woman gives off are much more useful than her appearance. According to research reports, women who are most likely to attract men's attention are often not those who are the most attractive, but those who send signals to men most frequently. A woman who smiles at a man 35 times in an hour is definitely more likely to attract his attention than a woman who only smiles at him 4 times in an hour.

Finding out what your date likes is crucial to the success of your date. A matchmaking agency has surveyed its members to find out what they hate most about dining out.

46% of the interviewed members dislike the other party answering the phone at the table, 41% of the respondents believe that restaurant waiters should not be treated rudely, 26% of male members and 37% of female members do not like the other party to talk too much about themselves, 30% of the interviewed members will choose to end the conversation when the other party talks about their ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend, and 45% of male members dislike the date talking about their weight or weight loss plan...