Women have these 4 fears on their first night

Most women are not satisfied with their first sexual intercourse and feel uncomfortable or even painful. But most women can adapt quickly, but a few are unable to have a normal sexual life due to various mental or physical reasons, which seriously affects the relationship between lovers and even causes infertility.

1. Fear of sexual intercourse

A state of fear occurs involuntarily. Showing emotions of panic, anxiety, and resistance.

Most of them have suffered sexual trauma and mental shock before formal sexual intercourse, or experienced severe pain during their first sexual intercourse. A few of them have received inappropriate sex education, which exaggerated the obscenity, pain and harm of sex.

2. Vaginismus

The pelvic floor muscles and vagina experience spasmodic contractions and are unable to relax, often accompanied by general stiffness, and the penis becomes stuck and difficult to pull out. This situation is not common.

Most of the time it is because the woman is too nervous and suffers from pain during insertion. The treatment method is psychotherapy, progressive vaginal massage and the use of lubricants, and antispasmodics can be used in advance if necessary.

3. Vaginal malformation, congenital absence of vagina, vaginal septum, etc.

Women with imperforate hymen will experience periodic lower abdominal pain after puberty because menstrual blood cannot be discharged and flows back into the pelvic cavity, with the intervals being equivalent to the menstrual cycle. These women are unable to have sexual intercourse, but treatment is simple: a hymenotomy is all that is needed.

Most people who are born without a vagina also have an underdeveloped uterus, which means they are unable to have sexual intercourse and are infertile. However, if their ovaries function normally, they will not experience any discomfort. Artificial vaginoplasty can be performed to solve their sexual problems.

In patients with complete transverse vaginal septum, menstrual blood cannot be discharged and periodic lower abdominal pain will occur. In patients with incomplete transverse vaginal septum, there may be no symptoms, but the penis cannot be deeply inserted during sexual intercourse. Caiyue may have incomplete transverse vaginal septum. In this case, septal resection can be performed.

4. Not understanding sexual intercourse

Due to lack of sexual knowledge, they do not know how to have sex. In the past, I have even heard of people having sex facing their belly buttons, which was a big joke. However, in the modern information society, such couples are very rare.