6 reasons why men don't marry mistresses

1. No matter how good or beautiful the mistress is, she may not be the type of woman that the cheating man wants.

Being a lover requires capital. She must be either young and beautiful, or smart and capable, or considerate. However, a lover may not be the cheating man's cup of tea. At best, she is just a snack for stimulation and relief after a boring marriage. What's more, the mistress is also a woman. As a woman, there will definitely be a day when her face grows old and her youth fades away. "There are mountains beyond mountains and people beyond people." In the eyes of cheating men, a lover is far less important than a wife.

2. No matter how old or ugly your wife is, it is better to stay with your original wife

It is undeniable that men cheat because of their wives. The wives either ignore their husbands, do not know how to dress themselves up, or are not enterprising. But even so, in the hearts of cheating men, they always know that if they did not have a loving wife at home, they would not have the brilliant career. Even if he betrayed his wife, he still feels guilty and apologetic psychologically. If his wife was not arrogant and unreasonable, and pushed her husband away without knowing the reason, most cheating husbands would not take the initiative to file for divorce. In his opinion, marriage is always better with the original wife, and changing a woman as his wife may not necessarily bring back the original happiness and joy.

3. If you have concerns about your career or future, divorce is a big loss.

Although this reason is objective, it can indeed make men hesitate after cheating. They are either worried that divorce will hinder their careers, or afraid of family criticism, or afraid of ruining their future. Even if the mistress threatens to commit suicide or gets pregnant, if the cheating man really wants to divorce and marry the mistress, he will still think twice and will not easily take the wrong step. Although men have strong animal instincts, the mistress is insignificant when it comes to their own interests. Once the mistress is enough to become a stumbling block to a man's career and future, the man will still be willing to kick the mistress, this stinky and hard stone, away, unless she is really abnormal.

4. The cheating man is very clear about the relationship with the mistress, and even if there is affection, it is not necessarily the cornerstone of the marriage

All men who cheat first become infatuated with the mistress's appearance and sex, and they all start an extramarital affair with a playful attitude. Even if the two really develop feelings for each other later, in the minds of cheating men, they all know very well that this kind of relationship is always mixed with "interests" and it is "each taking what he needs." Although the mistresses will keep saying "I'm not after your money," the cheating men will understand that "will you love me without money?" This is very practical. This reality lets cheating men know that the love between them will never lead to marriage and is not the cornerstone of marriage.

5. Even if he has no feelings for his wife, a cheating man cannot get over the issue of children

"A woman can be someone else's, but a child is always your own" is the catchphrase of many unfaithful men, and it seems to be the truth that all normal unfaithful men know well. In any case, even if the relationship between a man and his wife is really dead, and their marriage has not improved, a man will always feel distressed when facing his children. This may be the inner and instinctive interpretation of a man's fatherly love. Think about your children, especially when the children are facing critical periods, such as graduation exams, employment, poor health, etc. They will not hesitate to reject the "forced marriage" of the mistresses, and even hate the mistresses' ruthlessness and disloyalty in their hearts, and decisively choose "for the children" rather than divorce and marry a mistress.

6. Extramarital affairs also have rules, and cheating men will not hang themselves on a mistress

Men's animal instincts are destined to make them fickle. Just as when his wife turns from a young girl in her prime into a haggard woman, he goes hunting for other women. Similarly, when the mistresses are no longer attractive, they will continue to look for the next younger prey, and seem to be more ruthless and thorough in getting rid of them. What's more, extramarital affairs are also emotions, and they also have their natural laws of development. There will also be first love, passionate love, running-in period, transition period and aging period, and it cannot withstand the test of time. Therefore, cheating men are destined not to cling to the tree of a mistress. What they want is a large forest full of vitality, and old cows always like to eat young grass.