The most private secrets that women don't want to tell

Don't believe her if she says her title isn't as impressive as it sounds. Women always seem very modest when talking about work, partly because they do not think that career success is their entire value.

When you introduce her to others, emphasize her professional excellence and give her the credit she deserves.

Secret 2: Women are also commitment-phobic

It's just that she herself doesn't know it. You can feel that she is always working hard to take your relationship to the next level, and this is because women are born to be taught to do so. But deep down, she wasn't sure what she wanted, and she was terrified of quitting her single life. So here's what happens: When she becomes your official girlfriend and realizes that marriage will be the ultimate destination for your relationship, she starts to feel scared.

The proper way for a woman to resolve her wavering doubts is with a tight hug.

Secret 3: The less comfortable a woman is with receiving compliments, the more she craves them

If you tell a baby how beautiful she is, she probably won't even blink, and won't be impressed by your compliment at all. But if a woman blinks awkwardly, looks away, or asks if you have honey on your lips when you compliment her, she is just an ordinary person. In fact, if you say she is "extremely beautiful", it will be as precious as pure gold in her heart and will be remembered forever.

Compliment her often, and you'll see her melt towards you.

Secret 4: Women may like cold men, but they love those who are considerate the most.

Women start to show things about men that resonate with them early in a relationship, so you quickly learn how much she likes strawberry ice cream, how many action movies she has in her collection, and how good she is at snowboarding. However, every strong and independent girl has a soft side, and it won’t be long before you discover that she actually prefers watching Madagascar and binging Korean dramas on Saturday nights.

Pay more attention to her sentimental side. When these emotions arise, your gentleness and thoughtfulness can be as effective as Prozac.

Secret 5: The outfit the woman wore on her date was bought 4 hours ago

Women often feel that wearing old clothes when dating a new man is a mistake. She spent at least $500 to make herself look more attractive for your date. Paying more attention to her outfit—running your hands over the lace on her dress, fiddling with the bow on her bra, unzipping her boots—will make it worth it.

Secret 6: A woman’s feelings towards a man are written all over his face

If she likes you very much, she will look at you and smile like an idiot when you walk into the room. If she stands up and walks towards you, it means she is completely fascinated by you.

If you don't want to keep your distance from her, just give her a friendly smile when she walks into the room.

Secret 7: People around her know everything about him

It is indeed very difficult for a woman to keep the details and happiness of a new relationship deep in her heart. No matter how hard she tries to keep silent, she will eventually tell. In the early stages of your relationship, you are almost everything in her life, so her friends will know every detail of your love story through phone calls and emails, and they will update it every day. If you're not careful, she'll even add your name to the domain name of her blog.

Secret 8: Are there some sex techniques that a woman says she has never tried? In fact, she has tried them, and many times.

Women know that even the most gentle and sensitive man in the world wants to be dominant in sex, at least in the early stages of a relationship, so they always downplay their sexual desire at the beginning. It's not until a month or two later that her passionate side in bed comes to light.

To let her true self rear its head early, you can create some "coincidences," like lightly tying a tie around your bedpost.

Secret 9: Women imagine what men will look like in 10 years

From the way you stand to the size of your waist, she'll secretly assess how you'll look in a few years, especially if you're older than she is. What she needs to make sure is that in a few years, you won't become an uncle with a big beer belly who always sits on the sofa watching TV.

Allay her concerns by telling her about some of the extreme sports you plan to participate in, and about your efforts to stay in the shape required to participate in them.

Secret 10: It takes a woman 20 minutes to write a simple email to a man

Don't assume that she wrote you an email in one go. At most, she made the letter look concise, powerful, natural and fluent.

Each time you write her back, make it more concise and witty, and her desire for you will continue to grow.