Don't touch this sensitive spot of men.

Which mother doesn’t protect her children, and which son doesn’t love his mother? The biggest conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not the difference of opinion on trivial matters, but the competition for favor in front of men. A mother hopes her son can be nicer to her, and a daughter-in-law hopes her husband can be more considerate of her feelings. For this reason, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are like rivals in love, secretly competing for favor. A smart daughter-in-law will coax her mother-in-law, while a clumsy daughter-in-law will criticize her mother-in-law in front of her husband.

2 Don't discuss his bad habits in public.

No one is perfect and it is inevitable that they have some bad habits. For men's bad habits, women can find time to talk to their husbands alone, but do not make their husbands' bad habits public, and do not discuss their husbands' bad habits as an open topic in front of their parents-in-law and siblings. Don't let your husband become the public enemy of your closest relatives.

3. Don’t compare his shortcomings with other men’s strengths.

People like to compare, especially women, who may unconsciously use the advantages of other opposite sexes to stimulate their husbands' neglect of life. A woman's original intention is not to show off other men, but to hope that her husband can be better. The result is often: the man will hit back at the woman like this, "I'm better than him, why don't you just divorce me and live with him."

4. Don't be sarcastic when he steals glances at beautiful women.

When a man accompanies a woman shopping, it is natural for him to take a few more glances at a pretty woman. This does not mean that the man is unfaithful. At this time, women should not be sarcastic, and should not quarrel with men out of jealousy. Otherwise, the man will feel that you are being unreasonable, making a fuss, or even that you are exploiting his freedom. Being so petty can make a man feel a little suffocated.

5. Don't keep persuading him to get a promotion or change jobs.

Men in the workplace all want to get promoted and make money; when their career is not going well, they may think about changing jobs. However, when men leave their field of expertise, or know nothing at all, they have to stay in their familiar field and wait for opportunities. At this time, when faced with the sarcasm of others, a man will laugh at himself and say "it's good to be an ordinary person", but in fact he is still eyeing the promotion in his heart. For this reason, women should not doubt the man's competitive spirit and do not force him to get promoted or change jobs. In fact, when things are not going well at work, he is more anxious than you.

6 Don't completely deny what he does for the family.

There is a saying that goes, 'Even if there is no credit, there is still hard work.' In contemporary society, it is not ruled out that many women contribute more to the family than men. It is not because men do not work hard, or because the timing is not right, or because of limited ability, but they must also be doing their best to contribute to the family. When a woman marries a man with less ability, she should never say "what have you done for our family" during an argument.