Revealed: The Four Concerns of Chinese Premarital Chastity

Revealed: The Four Concerns of Chinese Premarital Chastity

When it comes to chastity before marriage, everyone has their own opinion. (Text/Piao Yutong) Some people persist to the end. After all, true "virginity" is more important than anything else. Some people sneer and say, who cares about that layer of membrane that symbolizes chastity? Whether you are married or not, it is better not to have a chaotic sex life. And sexual behavior is about making love with the person you love - this is the true meaning of love. Chinese women emphasize maintaining their chastity before marriage, which can be considered as a form of self-restraint.

In fact, there are also inherent concerns about remaining chaste before marriage. For example——

Sexual ability

Many men and women have never had any sexual relations before getting married. The woman thought that this was the man being polite. In fact, it is not the case. The man's sexual ability is not good, so it is just what he wants the woman to remain a chastity before marriage. Let’s talk about it after we get married. If the other party can tolerate it, then tolerate it. If the other party cannot tolerate it, divorce will also be a big trouble. Chinese people are used to the idea that less trouble is more important, so they just turn a blind eye to the issue of poor sexual ability.

Sexual orientation

A marriage of convenience is a painful choice for many gays. The other party is completely unaware of this and foolishly remains a chaste before marriage. The woman believes that she should keep her best chastity for the man she is going to marry. The man also showed respect and said he would have the wedding night on that day. The biggest reason is not the man’s restraint. Instead, the man doesn't like women and only likes the same sex. This won’t be clear unless you sleep together. Would it be better to find out before marriage?

Harmony of the Three Sexes

Both too strong and too weak sexual ability are not conducive to the life of couples. The so-called harmony is the degree to which both parties can accept each other. However, if there is no sexual contact before marriage, you won’t know; if you discover the problem after marriage, it will be too late. Change a man? It doesn't seem reasonable just for this. If you don't change, then just bear with it. A woman's kindness and consideration are not meant to be used in this place. But how can an inharmonious sex life not affect the relationship between husband and wife?

Four Fears

Because there was no prior experience, the wedding night became a critical moment. If the husband can accommodate his wife, everything will be easy. Only caring about his own pleasure and ignoring the woman's feelings - then, sexual phobia is self-evident. Physical illnesses are easy to treat, but mental illnesses can be serious or minor. Sexual fear is a fear that is difficult to describe or explain. If there is effective communication before marriage, the possibility of sexual fear after marriage will be greatly reduced.

No matter what, stick to what you insist on - and then, don't regret it...

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