Revealed: Living together before marriage tests out a woman's "four major natures"

Many urban men and women choose to live together before marriage. It is not easy for two people from different families to adapt to the same environment. Many people get along with each other on the surface, but they don’t really understand the essence of things. Living together takes too long and the purpose of living together is too obvious. A woman's true character can also be seen through living together before marriage. for example--

Ability to take care of oneself

If you don't live together, it's hard to know the woman's ability to take care of herself. Usually when she is outside, she looks so glamorous and beautiful. But when you return home, will it be messy or tidy? Now she is your live-in girlfriend, and in the future she will be the head of the household. It is generally believed that men are responsible for external affairs and women are responsible for internal affairs. As the head of the family, the man is exhausted from working outside. Do you still want to go home and deal with the aftermath for your wife? No, no, no.

2. Attitude towards money

When dating or in a relationship, men will be very gentlemanly and take the initiative to pay the bill. But when living together, does it emphasize the AA system for everything? Or does the man have to take care of everything? Eating and living together, water, electricity, gas, etc. all cost money. The burden and expenses of a family are one thing if the woman has no income; but if she has income, will she generously share part of the burden? Even worse, she even wants to earn her own pocket money. Who knows?

Three family concepts

We are living together now and will get married in the future if the time is right. Marriage is not just a matter between two people - rather, it is a matter between two families. A woman’s family concept is very important and is directly related to the long-term stability of the family. Even women have no concept of family, how do you expect men to be family-oriented? Women only care about eating, drinking and having fun, and will break up immediately if something goes wrong when living together. Women focus on the home, and they can be married!

Four sexual needs

To put it bluntly, marital discord is more about sexual discord. From holding hands and kissing when dating to further caressing and cuddling - no matter how you put it, nothing can be as thorough as living together. Being together day and night, her sexual needs are fully understood. There is no need to hide whether it is in sync with you. There is no way to compromise, too much or too little is difficult for people to accept. So, living together is the most direct way.

Maybe men should not see too much, otherwise there will be no romance or fun...