The role of sex toys in couples' lives

Take stock of the role of sex toys in couples’ lives. China's "sexual culture", like its "tea culture" and "wine culture", has a long history. At the Guangzhou Sex Culture Exhibition held not long ago, imitation penises made of various materials, hidden erotic pictures, as well as various modern vibrators, new condoms, lubricants, etc., all demonstrated China's rich sexual culture.

As the old saying goes: "When you are well fed and warm, you will think about sex." When the problem of food and clothing is solved, people will naturally pay attention to the happiness of sex life. Unfortunately, a survey in China found that at least 10% of Chinese people suffer from sexual dysfunction to varying degrees.

More than 50% of women do not have orgasm during sexual life. So, how can the vast number of women who have this problem, as well as sexually disharmonious couples, the disabled, and singles, relieve their sexual stress?

Historically, the emergence of sex toys has been a solution. China may be the first country in the world to use sex toys. Since the Stone Age, sexual organ simulation products have appeared, mainly serving women. Even in the feudal society where "dying of starvation is a minor matter, but losing one's chastity is a major matter", sexual tools have always been accepted by people.

We should give a correct evaluation to the role of sex toys.

When people are unable to complete sexual intercourse normally due to psychological, physiological or other problems, they should not avoid this need with a negative, inactive attitude, but should use the help of body parts other than the genitals, drugs or sex toys to complete sexual activities.

For example, when a man's penis cannot erect, he can use his hands, mouth, tools, etc. to provide non-genital contact sexual stimulation to the woman, so that the woman can get sexual satisfaction; when he has sexual desire but lacks a sexual partner, he can also use various instruments, such as vibrators, to masturbate; sex toys can also enhance stimulation, help women reach orgasm, and relieve sexual pressure for people who cannot have sex. In addition, men with anejaculation can also use imitation vagina to help treat it.

The "tenacious" vitality of sex toys in history reflects that sex toys embody a kind of humanistic care. They themselves do not involve moral, ethical, or legal issues, so it is unreasonable for some people to call them "sex toys."

Take stock of the role of sex toys in couples’ lives. However, sex toys are not omnipotent. They are only auxiliary products that can be used as icing on the cake when necessary. They cannot replace people's emotional investment and psychological needs. Therefore, it is still important to establish a happy marriage and a harmonious sex life. We need to remind everyone that no matter what kind of sexual dysfunction or sexual problem occurs, you should first consult a specialist and seek correction. Using sex toys carelessly may cause more harm than good.