What kind of sweet words do men and women say before, during and after doing "that thing"?

Communication is the basis of relationships between the sexes. Both men and women need verbal communication to bring emotional intimacy and help arouse sexual desire. Multiple studies have found that words are powerful aphrodisiacs that can make people feel more confident about their sex lives and make the sexual experience more wonderful. However, couples are still far from making full use of language. They either don't speak at all or they talk about the wrong topics.

The basic rules of sex chat are: 1. Be sincere. You must speak your true feelings and not say false words just to show off your demeanor. Your body tells the truth, and if what you say is inconsistent with what your body expresses, your partner will realize that you are lying. 2. Be specific. The more specific it is, the better the effect will be, and the more attentive you will appear. For example, don’t just say “You are beautiful,” but “You have beautiful eyes.” 3. Be concise. Don't talk too much during sex, just say short and sweet words.

Things to say before sex:

"I feel good when I'm with you." Letting your partner know what a difference he or she makes in your life will make him or her feel important, special, and sexy. When partners hear this, they respond with more sex.

"Your hair looks great like this." While compliments on the body can make people feel more attractive, focusing on the hair can make people feel extra noticed. Women, in particular, are pleasantly surprised to hear their partners appreciate the thoughtful improvements they put into making.

"I love your passionate kisses." Kissing is one of the best foreplays, so make sure your partner understands its importance. When you compliment your partner on their kissing skills, be sure to focus on the specific aspects of their kiss that you like. Be careful not to say, "You're a great kisser," which may make your partner feel like you're comparing him or her to others.

"I want to see your body." For men and women who have established a relationship, this is a good foreplay. It shows that you are full of fantasies about passionate, wet and hot sex, and it will also arouse your partner's desire.

Things to say during sex:

"I like your..." This sentence shows that you are fully committed to the other person during sex, and you must praise the parts of your partner's body that you like. Especially when praising your female partner's body parts, whether it is her seductive breasts, flat belly, or round buttocks, you can "sing praises" while caressing her.

"I like the way you smell." Both men and women worry about having body odor. When you say this, your partner's concerns will be completely dispelled and he or she will be more relaxed. Women can also express their affection for men's private parts.

"You look hot in that position." People want to know how they look in new positions, and letting your partner know that he or she is sexy and hot can help make sex more passionate.

Let out a groan. This is the most effective communication during sex, and it is also the "language" that only your partner can understand.

What to say after sex:

"Wow!" This is the shortest and most powerful word, expressing surprise and satisfaction in one sentence.

"Thank you." Sex is the greatest gift between partners, show your gratitude.

"I want to lie with you forever." After orgasm, oxytocin is secreted in the human body, which means that the other party desires intimacy, trust and security. Letting your partner know that you value your relationship can help it last a lifetime.

"I like that move you made." This sentence is not only a compliment, but also lets your partner know that you like his (her) sexual moves and hope to do them again next time. Men can even praise a woman's sexual skills weeks after having sex. This can also be foreplay for the next sexual intercourse, which can arouse her sexual passion.