Three major behaviors of men that force women to break up

Some men just want to possess you and monopolize your best youth.

1. A man is hot and cold towards you and sometimes ignores you for a few days.

The richer a man's love history, the more likely he is to be incapable of love. He is 12 years older than you and has dated many girlfriends. He is almost incapable of love and is not very good at giving his all. He only knows how to steal women's hearts with cheap favors, and your heart has also been stolen by him.

You say he has a bad temper and even hits you when you quarrel, but you still like him. If it were an ordinary man, you might have turned around and left. Who would like a man who commits domestic violence? But you like him. Why? Because he is very good at coaxing you. He can quickly make you happy. How does he coax you? It’s nothing more than talking, inviting you to dinner, giving you some flowers and chocolates to get rid of you.

But what does it matter if he can coax you? A mature man knows how to give a woman a stable life, but what does he give you? It's hot and cold. Generally speaking, men only use the hot-and-cold tactic when they need to deal with more than one woman. Imagine if you were married and he disappeared for days at a time and didn't answer your calls, would you think this was romantic and exciting, rather than anger and breakdown?

2. Marrying you is not part of the man’s future plans.

Girls all know that dating without the intention of getting married is just hooliganism. Men are always very cautious about marriage, just like women are about sex. He has never seriously planned the future with you, nor has he ever talked about when to marry you. This kind of sex in the name of love is just an attempt to occupy your youth for free. This alone can drive away many women, but you are still obsessed with his sweet words.

3. Men are reluctant to spend money on women and don’t want to pay too much.

Girls all know that where a man's money is, his heart is there. He doesn't like to spend too much money on girls because his money is not enough for many girls, and you are just one of them. His years of love experience tell him not to give too much to a girl, otherwise, his money will be tied up and he won't be able to continue dating other girls. His current mentality of not wanting to spend money means he doesn't want to marry you.

Small favors are just magic potions, not true love. When we broke up, he ordered 99 roses for you. How much does that cost? Just one or two thousand yuan. Any veteran in love would do such a romantic thing. You were moved by such a small favor. You are really naive.

No matter whether he has a bad heart or not, it is a fact that he doesn't love you very much. If you want to find reasons from me to affirm his love for you, I'm sorry, I can't make you happy. You better find a way to convince yourself. I can't satisfy your fantasy in good conscience.