The dangers of sexual fantasies

Physical desire is a normal physiological phenomenon of human beings. Especially for many men after entering puberty, their sexual parts of the body are fully developed and they are exposed to more and more sexual things. Therefore, if you are a normal male, you will inevitably have some sexual desires and some objects of sexual fantasies. However, if men have sexual fantasies too often, it will cause certain harm to their bodies.

1. The harm of male sexual fantasies

For a healthy person, occasional sexual fantasies are a part of normal life. If sexual fantasies become particularly fascinating and one becomes addicted to them for a long time, it will interfere with work and affect normal interactions with others. In severe cases, there may even be abnormal or subconscious actions that infringe upon women, such as touching, leaning against, or forcefully kissing women in public; or mental symptoms may be induced. This is not only immoral and illegal, but also harmful to personal physical and mental health.

2. Men’s sexual fantasies often have a self-motivating effect

According to statistics, the object of a man's sexual fantasy is usually the person around him who can arouse his sexual desire the most, or the person he thinks is the most attractive. Having sex with two or more women at the same time is a common sexual fantasy for many men; or fantasizing about peeping at others having sex, or fantasizing about having sex in front of others, or even fantasizing about another man having sex with his woman in front of him. What these sexual fantasies have in common is that they satisfy the desire for voyeurism. In addition, fantasizing about a woman masturbating in front of you is also a popular sexual fantasy for many men.

Most people would think that sexual fantasies are sinful and dirty, because the plots in fantasies are often immoral or things that people dare not transgress in real life, such as adultery, homosexuality, sexual sadism, etc. But instead of worrying about the absurd content of sexual fantasies and feeling uneasy, it is better to face up to and enjoy the help that sexual fantasies can bring to your sex life. As long as it does not deviate from sexual fantasies and become a sexual crime, sexual fantasies are very effective catalysts in sex.

The results of modern sex science research show that every man and woman who enters puberty and sexual development will have fantasy experiences that continue into adulthood and old age. However, the frequency of sexual fantasies between men and women is different, with men having far more fantasies than women. Sexual fantasy, like talking to oneself, is a self-sexual activity that does not harm others. In addition to young people who are particularly fond of sexual fantasies, even those who are married and have a satisfactory sex life will indulge in past experiences, especially those missed opportunities and expectations for the future.