The average woman thinks about this 18 times a day

Many people think that sexual fantasies are something only men do. Although women are different organisms from men, women are also likely to have sexual fantasies. What shocked everyone was that women have sexual fantasies an average of 18 times a day! If women's sexual needs are not met well, they will masturbate, which is very common.

In fact, on average, men have 34.2 sexual fantasies per day. Excluding the 8 hours of sleep, I think about it about once every 28 minutes. Women have an average of 18.6 erotic fantasies a day, which, excluding the eight hours of sleep, is about once every 51 minutes.

Psychologists from Ohio State University asked students aged 18 to 25 to record how many times they fantasized about sex, food, and sleep each day for a week.

In some of the results, the highest number of sexual fantasies recorded by women per day was 140 times, which is basically once every 7 minutes. On average, women thought about food 15.3 times (once every 62 minutes) and sleep 13.4 times (once every 72 minutes). Men think about food 25.1 times a day (once every 38 minutes) and think about sleep once every 33 minutes.

The final survey results show that men pay more attention to their own physiological needs than women, including sexual needs. In the survey, women said they thought about obscene things because of social pressure.

Do men and women have the same sexual fantasies?

There is a legend that goes like this: Most men's sexual fantasies are about strangers of the opposite sex, but for women, on the contrary, more than 60% of their sexual fantasies occur between people they know. This shows that sexual fantasy is an excellent model for identifying psychological differences between men and women. People who study love psychology often set several related questions in questionnaires, and some of the results are hilarious.

For example, 15% of women will add vivid romantic scenes to their minds at this moment, such as beaches, waterfalls, highways, etc., while less than 4% of men will spend that time on it. The problem is that many of them prefer offices. Homebodies, here comes my question: The beach is easy to understand, as it is a virtual travel opportunity in your mind, but why is the office there? Does it mean that you still prefer working?

Because of libido, men have much higher frequency of sexual fantasies than women, a fact that makes it difficult for them to be satisfied. So, according to a report from 1978, most men with rich imaginations in this area are unlikely to have a satisfactory sex life.

Think about it, it is true. You may have had romantic relationships with more than ten people in your mind, but in reality you may only have one or less sexual partner. You may have had such and such relationships with Audrey Hepburn or Lin Chiling in your mind, but in reality you have to face a fat waist and a melon-shaped face. Life is cruel, isn't it? If you feel the cruelty is too unbearable, go and read Su Tong and Mo Yan's novels. The names are very interesting, such as "Wives and Concubines" and "Big Breasts and Wide Hips".

1. "For women, sex is inseparable from life."

Men can often separate factors such as the pressure of life from sex, but women cannot. How her lover treats her outside the bedroom directly affects her performance in bed. For example, being indifferent to her, speaking harshly, or using a rude tone will make her unable to devote herself to sex and become passionate.

2. "I am most aroused by pleasant conversation."

Before sex, women like to talk to men about their lives and thoughts. They want couples to be able to relax and talk on the sofa, or chat while taking a walk. At this time, if the man can say some sweet words like "I love you" or "I care about you very much", the woman will have a strong sexual desire.

3. "I will be anxious about aging and afraid that I will lose my attraction to you."

For older couples, wives are often afraid that they are no longer as attractive to their husbands. For this reason, many women dare to take off their clothes only after turning off the lights. Careful men can sense this anxiety of women. If she is no longer as pretty as a flower, there is no need to lie to her or say that she is no longer attractive. You should show her through your actions to let her know that she is still attractive to you.

4. "Please don't be so serious during sex."

Sex is essentially a "game," but many men take it so seriously that they forget to laugh and engage in romantic, naughty behavior. This often makes sex stressful and dull, and neither man nor woman can experience the pleasure of sex.

5. "I like physical contact and caressing, sometimes not sexual."

Women love romance, and hugging, holding hands and kissing make them happy. But many women complain that men rarely perform this kind of intimate behavior with them except for foreplay. Therefore, hug and kiss her often and she will feel happy.

6. "After sex, I want more tenderness."

Some women complain that men fall asleep right after having sex. Indeed, many men no longer engage in intimate behavior after they climax, and a sexual life ends there. But at this time, women want more hugs or a longer chat, which can make them more satisfied.