The ancients' magical "boudoir skills" will definitely leave you dumbfounded

Usually, proper foreplay is necessary before sexual intercourse so that sex life will be smoother and more wonderful. Let both parties enjoy high-quality sexual pleasure. Then do you know how Chinese ancestors aroused sexual desire? Let’s take a look at these secret tricks!

Generally speaking, there are two different ways to start sexual intercourse between couples: one is to start suddenly; the other is to caress each other first and then start when both parties are excited. Obviously, the former is not in line with sexual hygiene and may easily lead to conflicts and pain. The latter can meet the requirements of sexual psychology and physiology of the couple's sexual life and enable both parties to enjoy high-quality sexual pleasure, but it is often not easy for men and women, especially young and middle-aged couples, to get used to it. If they can adapt to it, both parties will benefit greatly. Foreplay mainly includes flirting such as hugging, kissing, touching, and sweet talk.

Why is it necessary to caress before sexual intercourse? This is because the sexual desire and sexual excitement between men and women are often out of sync. Generally speaking, men's sexual impulses often appear quickly due to visual stimulation; women's are relatively slow, but they are more sensitive to tactile stimulation. Of course, the opposite situation may also occur, that is, the woman has sexual demands but the man does not. Therefore, all of the above situations require a playful and flirting stage.

There was a brilliant explanation of this in the "Secrets of the Jade Chamber": When a couple is having sexual intercourse, if the woman is not happy because she is not aroused, her vulva will not be stimulated and will not expand, and the vaginal fluid will not flow out for lubrication; if the man has no sexual desire, his penis will not become erect and will not become hard. These all hinder the smooth progress of sexual intercourse.

Before sexual intercourse, couples should first sense each other and stimulate each other's sexual desire. If the man cannot move the woman, the woman will not be happy and will not respond; if the woman cannot move the man, the man's penis will not erect and he will not be active. In this case of "unrequited love", if the couple cannot coordinate and harmonize, and their essences cannot sense each other, if they rush into intercourse and use rough movements, it will more easily cause disgust in the other party, making it difficult to achieve a good thing. If the two people are in harmony with each other's sexual desires before sexual intercourse, the contraction and relaxation of the woman's vagina can stimulate the man's penis, making it stronger and larger; in turn, this promotes the flow and lubrication of the woman's vaginal fluid, so that both parties can get sexual satisfaction.